Patience and Leadership
Posted by Nick Booth
September 22nd, 2008
I’ve been keeping tabs on the new blog from Common Purpose, the leadership development charity. One of their writers reflects on a quality which we sometimes brush aside in the business of life:
Patience was the subject of our most recent practice along with the below quote from Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton: “Patience is not passive; on the contrary, it is active; it is concentrated strength.”
Elsewhere on the site Oliver Mack ponders whether women have a particular approach to leadership:
Being in a minority (as women often find themselves in business) women have to learn the hard way how to bring about change. They can’t rely on their positions of authority, their technical expertise and education. It just won’t get them as far. They learn how the system really works, where the power really lies and how to use it. They learn to be patient, how to get people on side, and avoid the blocks. They have to become much more sophisticated, and more aware of themselves in the process.
Maybe there is some truth in this. Perhaps more women do more of the above than men. However surely the key issue here is that having the patience to become expert in your field and your organisation will give you both the tools and the authority to take a lead.
Image from Created in the Dark.

October 10th, 2008 at 11:06 am
Dear Nick,
Thank you for reading our blog and your thoughts on patience. It is indeed a fundamental aspect of leadership and especially when leading beyond authority when you might not know how the system works and need to understand your audience. This fits in with another theme we are currently exploring, the importance of resonance. To communicate and resonate effectively as a leader you need to know your audience, and this takes the patience to prepare and explore who they are to know how to approach them.
I look forward to hearing your thoughts.